Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 09:48:04 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
In message , at 08:28:00 on Thu, 4 Oct
2012, d remarked:
You clearly have no idea how trapped these women are in their
unfortunate situation.

Frankly I don't give a rats arse

That's obvious.

You can't care about everyone in the whole world. You might pretend to care
but in reality you don't give any more of a **** than I do. I'm just honest
about it.

B2003

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

"CJB" wrote

Latest news:

http://www.uxbridgegazette.co.uk/wes...3046-31960094/

So both men, and with English names.

Peter

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

In message , at 10:53:15 on
Thu, 4 Oct 2012, Peter Masson
remarked:
So both men, and with English names.

No-one is claiming that all the suicides are asian women.
--
Roland Perry

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

In message , at 09:33:31 on Thu, 4 Oct
2012, d remarked:
You clearly have no idea how trapped these women are in their
unfortunate situation.

Frankly I don't give a rats arse

That's obvious.

You can't care about everyone in the whole world. You might pretend to care
but in reality you don't give any more of a **** than I do. I'm just honest
about it.

You don't have the first idea. Most of my work at the moment is for
victims of domestic violence.
--
Roland Perry

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

On Wed, Oct 03, 2012 at 04:35:56AM -0700, CJB wrote:

Speaking of the 4'th suicide in as many months, John McDonnell MP H&H
stated "We need to get everyone around table and examine all possible
measures we can take to stop this from happening, because it has got
to a point where we can't just stand back."

Can't stand back. Ho ho ho.

Yet John has been trying and failing to get FGW and Network Rail
management to such a meeting for over a year. BOTH ORGS ARE DRAGGING
THEIR FEET ON THE ISSUE.

What the hell does he expect FGW or Network Rail to do about what is
clearly a social problem in that one little area? Close the station and
bury the track in a tunnel? Even that won't work, people will just find
other even more inconsiderate ways of topping themselves.

--
David Cantrell | Hero of the Information Age

THIS IS THE LANGUAGE POLICE
PUT DOWN YOUR THESAURUS
STEP AWAY FROM THE CLICHE

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 11:56:55 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
You can't care about everyone in the whole world. You might pretend to care
but in reality you don't give any more of a **** than I do. I'm just honest
about it.

You don't have the first idea. Most of my work at the moment is for
victims of domestic violence.

You hero. Electronics get a bit boring?

But it still doesn't mean you care anymore than a doctor goes home at night
and stresses about all his patients. Doesn't happen. If it did you'd soon be
the one needing the care.

B2003

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

In message , at 11:42:02 on Thu, 4 Oct
2012, d remarked:
On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 11:56:55 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
You can't care about everyone in the whole world. You might pretend to care
but in reality you don't give any more of a **** than I do. I'm just honest
about it.

You don't have the first idea. Most of my work at the moment is for
victims of domestic violence.

You hero. Electronics get a bit boring?

It's all about electronics. The way the abusers use social media on PCs
and smartphones to assist their activity.

But it still doesn't mean you care anymore than a doctor goes home at night
and stresses about all his patients. Doesn't happen. If it did you'd soon be
the one needing the care.

I agree that you mustn't get too involved in individual cases, but I
care enough about the wider issues to spend most of my time working on
them.
--
Roland Perry

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 13:52:15 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
It's all about electronics. The way the abusers use social media on PCs
and smartphones to assist their activity.

So domestic abusers use computers now? What do they do, hit their spouse over
the head with them?

Anyway , anyone who lets themselves get abused on social media is an idiot.
Its nothing more than a recreaitonal toy so if someone is unpleasent then don't
use it. Its like complaining that every time you go in a certain garden a
dog bites you. Well don't go in that garden then!

B2003

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

In message , at 13:37:54 on Thu, 4 Oct
2012, d remarked:
On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 13:52:15 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
It's all about electronics. The way the abusers use social media on PCs
and smartphones to assist their activity.

So domestic abusers use computers now? What do they do, hit their spouse over
the head with them?

They monitor their spouses.

Anyway , anyone who lets themselves get abused on social media is an idiot.

They aren't being trolled. And one of my aims to help them prevent being
abused, so we agree that's a good thing.

Its nothing more than a recreaitonal toy so if someone is unpleasent then don't
use it. Its like complaining that every time you go in a certain garden a
dog bites you. Well don't go in that garden then!

Many people today have their support networks tied almost inextricably
to Facebook (and to some extent Facebook-alikes). Cutting themselves off
from that isn't an option.

ps It's quite interesting to see you trotting out the classic redneck
responses, by the way. Makes me even more sure it's attitudes like yours
which need to be addressed.
--
Roland Perry

Another Suicide at Hayes & Harlington
 

On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 15:18:38 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
In message , at 13:37:54 on Thu, 4 Oct
2012, d remarked:
On Thu, 4 Oct 2012 13:52:15 +0100
Roland Perry wrote:
It's all about electronics. The way the abusers use social media on PCs
and smartphones to assist their activity.

So domestic abusers use computers now? What do they do, hit their spouse over
the head with them?

They monitor their spouses.

They can only monitor their spouse if they spouse writes something to be
monitored. Perhaps spouse should get a brain.

Many people today have their support networks tied almost inextricably
to Facebook (and to some extent Facebook-alikes). Cutting themselves off
from that isn't an option.

Oh BS. If thats really the case they need to get a life and probably have
more to worry about that people abusing them.

ps It's quite interesting to see you trotting out the classic redneck
responses, by the way. Makes me even more sure it's attitudes like yours
which need to be addressed.

Anyone whose life depends on social media is a loser. I have zero sympathy.
If you think thats a redneck attitude then that makes a lot of rednecks
in the UK.

B2003